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		<title>How to Love Your Enemies</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 19:27:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Alex Benzer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many of you wrote in after video blog #6 asking, &#8220;How am I supposed to love my enemies? I mean, they&#8217;re my enemies!  This makes no sense!&#8221;  
Hey, I hear ya.  So here&#8217;s a little explanation of that concept as I understand it.  Make sure to rate the video and comment [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many of you wrote in after video blog #6 asking, &#8220;How am I supposed to love my enemies? I mean, they&#8217;re my enemies!  This makes no sense!&#8221;  </p>
<p>Hey, I hear ya.  So here&#8217;s a little explanation of that concept as I understand it.  Make sure to rate the video and comment so I know you&#8217;re listening, and if you like it, share it with friends via Facebook and spread the good word:</p>
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		<title>Dating Advice for Men: How to Be a Multiorgasmic Man (Video)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 18:07:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Alex Benzer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a little video I made for you to make the case for becoming a multiorgasmic man, including the first basic steps of your training.  Check it out, and show signs of life by rating it and commenting on it.  And if you like it, share with friends by tweeting it out and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s a little video I made for you to make the case for becoming a multiorgasmic man, including the first basic steps of your training.  Check it out, and show signs of life by rating it and commenting on it.  And if you like it, share with friends by tweeting it out and posting it to your Facebook profile &#8211; thanks for spreading the word!</p>
<p>Remember that multiorgasmic training is a part of the Metamorphosis Program, the monthlong training to take your love life from where it is to where you want it to be.  Free preview teleseminar is this Thursday, 15 Oct at 5.30pm PDT/8.30pm EDT/1.30am London/11.30am Sydney, and the program starts Monday, 19 Oct &#8211; sign up for that <a href="http://www.taoofdating.com/TS">here</a>.  Click <a href="http://www.TaoOfDating.com/metamorphosis">here</a> for more info on the Metamorphosis Program.</p>
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		<title>The Art of Personal Renewal: Lesson from Warsaw</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 00:48:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Alex Benzer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the most moving visits of my trip was to the great city of Warsaw.  In this video, I tell you exactly what made it so moving and how it relates to your personal resurrection.  
Especially if you think you&#8217;re in a slump, down in the dumps, at the end of your [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the most moving visits of my trip was to the great city of Warsaw.  In this video, I tell you exactly what made it so moving and how it relates to your personal resurrection.  </p>
<p>Especially if you think you&#8217;re in a slump, down in the dumps, at the end of your rope, or embroiled in some other metaphor you don&#8217;t like, I encourage you to take a lesson from Warsaw.  Renewal happens in an instant, and as the saying goes, today is the first day of the rest of your life.  </p>
<p>As usual, if you like the video, please show me you&#8217;re alive!  Rate it, comment on it, share it with friends via Facebook and Twitter, and embed it on your own website.  You never know whom you&#8217;re going to touch with exactly the message that they need to hear at that moment.  Here&#8217;s the link to send it along: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dnZyLjthOqM">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dnZyLjthOqM</a></p>
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		<title>Lose Your Baggage</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 01:23:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Alex Benzer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey guys.  Thanks a lot for your enthusiastic response to the videos.  One of you even recognized me in church service the other day and said hi.  This stuff gets around &#8211; who knew!
Here&#8217;s another video to stimulate some thinking and reconsideration.

I&#8217;d always wondered what it meant to ‘love your enemy&#8217; and it never made [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey guys.  Thanks a lot for your enthusiastic response to the videos.  One of you even recognized me in church service the other day and said hi.  This stuff gets around &#8211; who knew!</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s another video to stimulate some thinking and reconsideration.</p>
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<p>I&#8217;d always wondered what it meant to ‘love your enemy&#8217; and it never made a lot of sense.  Frankly, most of the time I would have preferred that the troublemakers in my life do the polite thing and drop dead.</p>
<p>However, recently, it made much more sense to me, and after watching this video, it will make sense to you, too.</p>
<p>As usual, if you like it, please show signs of life by rating it, commenting on it, and sharing it with friends.  And you have my full blessing to embed it on your own site if you have one.</p>
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		<title>Dating advice for women &amp; men: How to Make New Friends Easily</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 19:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Alex Benzer</dc:creator>
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Thanks for your super-enthusiastic response to the &#8216;Project Love&#8217; video.  Seems like it struck a resonant chord with a lot of you.
The key thing to remember is to just get back to basics sometimes.
So often we get caught up in the adult world of upholding our own supposed importance that we forget the simple [...]]]></description>
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<p>Thanks for your super-enthusiastic response to the &#8216;Project Love&#8217; video.  Seems like it struck a resonant chord with a lot of you.</p>
<p>The key thing to remember is to just get back to basics sometimes.</p>
<p>So often we get caught up in the adult world of upholding our own supposed importance that we forget the simple ways to make a human connection &#8212; y&#8217;know, the stuff we used to do in the sandbox as kids (and I&#8217;m not talking about scurrying off with Mary Jane&#8217;s toys, you little rascal you).</p>
<p>The content of this here video is so simple as to almost be elementary &#8212; but mega-important! And I bet my entire chocolate stash (and it <em>is</em> vast) that you&#8217;re not doing it nearly enough.<br />
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Once again, you get to see me in a way-exotic locale.  And just like the last video, just <em>doing</em> the practice will make you feel good.</p>
<p>As before, feel free to share it with friends the way you know how (Facebook, Twitter etc).  I bet each of you knows <em>at least one</em> sourpuss who could benefit from this.  Also you have my full blessing to embed this on your own site/blog so long as it benefits more folks.</p>
<p>The power is within you,</p>
<p>Dr Alex</p>
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		<title>&#8216;Tao of Dating for Women&#8217; Reading at Book Soup, July 15</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 20:09:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Alex Benzer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Wednesday 15 July 2009, we finally had the much-anticipated reading at the world-infamous LA independent bookstore Book Soup.  It was a full house, and the spirited audience had some fine questions ready for me.  They also took care of the case of prosecco in very short order &#8212; impressive.
Here&#8217;s a video of the first [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On Wednesday 15 July 2009, we finally had the much-anticipated reading at the <a title="World-famous independent LA bookstore" href="http://www.booksoup.com" target="_blank">world-infamous LA independent bookstore Book Soup</a>.  It was a full house, and the spirited audience had some fine questions ready for me.  They also took care of the case of prosecco in very short order &#8212; impressive.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a video of the first 40min of the reading.  This is when I lay out the 5 principles of <a title="Tao of Dating for Women" href="http://www.taoofdating.com/women" target="_blank"><em>The Tao of Dating</em></a> (for both men and women).  It starts with a supremely complimentary intro by my friend and colleague <a href="http://www.evanmarckatz.com">Evan Marc Katz</a>, author of an <a title="Evan Marc Katz's blog" href="http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog" target="_blank">outstanding dating blog</a> and the best dating coach I know for women.  Then I get on my soapbox.  I even get a few laughs &#8212; thank god for wine.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll have the full audio of the event ready soon for download &#8212; make sure you&#8217;re on my mailing list to get that.  In the meantime, check out the video, courtesy of Marc Strassman of <a title="Etopia News" href="http://www.etopianews.com" target="_blank">etopianews.com</a>:</p>
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		<title>Video: Are you a boy or a man?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2009 19:14:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Alex Benzer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[While we&#8217;re on the topic of masculinity, here&#8217;s a video from my &#8216;Transformation Weekend&#8217; seminar I did some time back.  Thanks for all of your positive feedback on it so far &#8212; we&#8217;re working on making an audio product of the seminar ready.  In the meantime, enjoy the video, and feel free to rate it [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While we&#8217;re on the topic of masculinity, here&#8217;s a video from my &#8216;Transformation Weekend&#8217; seminar I did some time back.  Thanks for all of your positive feedback on it so far &#8212; we&#8217;re working on making an audio product of the seminar ready.  In the meantime, enjoy the video, and feel free to rate it and comment on it:</p>
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