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	<title>The Tao of Dating by Dr Alex Benzer &#124; Dating advice for smart men and women, Eastern wisdom, Taoism, spiritual dating &#187; love your enemies</title>
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		<title>How to Love Your Enemies</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 19:27:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Alex Benzer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many of you wrote in after video blog #6 asking, &#8220;How am I supposed to love my enemies? I mean, they&#8217;re my enemies!  This makes no sense!&#8221;  
Hey, I hear ya.  So here&#8217;s a little explanation of that concept as I understand it.  Make sure to rate the video and comment [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many of you wrote in after video blog #6 asking, &#8220;How am I supposed to love my enemies? I mean, they&#8217;re my enemies!  This makes no sense!&#8221;  </p>
<p>Hey, I hear ya.  So here&#8217;s a little explanation of that concept as I understand it.  Make sure to rate the video and comment so I know you&#8217;re listening, and if you like it, share it with friends via Facebook and spread the good word:</p>
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		<title>Lose Your Baggage</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 01:23:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Alex Benzer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey guys.  Thanks a lot for your enthusiastic response to the videos.  One of you even recognized me in church service the other day and said hi.  This stuff gets around &#8211; who knew!
Here&#8217;s another video to stimulate some thinking and reconsideration.

I&#8217;d always wondered what it meant to ‘love your enemy&#8217; and it never made [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey guys.  Thanks a lot for your enthusiastic response to the videos.  One of you even recognized me in church service the other day and said hi.  This stuff gets around &#8211; who knew!</p>
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<p>I&#8217;d always wondered what it meant to ‘love your enemy&#8217; and it never made a lot of sense.  Frankly, most of the time I would have preferred that the troublemakers in my life do the polite thing and drop dead.</p>
<p>However, recently, it made much more sense to me, and after watching this video, it will make sense to you, too.</p>
<p>As usual, if you like it, please show signs of life by rating it, commenting on it, and sharing it with friends.  And you have my full blessing to embed it on your own site if you have one.</p>
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