Here’s a letter I got recently which highlights one of the most common issues women have when it comes to dating. For all of you who have ever been in mediocre relationships, listen up:
Hi Alex,
Thanks for the compassionate, thoughtful and straightforward presentation of your experience and perspective. This information has been very helpful in creating new possibilities for my own experience.
In 3 weeks I will have been in a self-described ‘partnership’ for two years. It has been both delightful and devastating. My partner, while he verbally professes love for me, and has shown up in many very supportive ways, has also betrayed me repeatedly in public, always for a person he says is ‘only a friend’. I have gotten stuck on wanting to forgive and move through it and not been effective in being aware of and communicating or acting on what I am honestly experiencing. He has expressed sincere regret that ‘you are having this experience of betrayal’. Something about that phrase is very uncomfortable to me, as if I should (more…)