Our friend Michaela got back to us after the article from a couple of days ago about the man who consistently betrayed her. (Before you boys tune out, this situation happens all the time to both men and women — ever heard of the expression ‘whipped’ before? Then read on.) […]
Categories: Dating for WomenTags: Barbara de Angelis, dating advice for smart men, dating advice for smart people, dating advice for smart women, dealbreakers, dealbreakers in a relationship, Death of Ivan Ilyich, John Gottman, magical thinking, self-indulgence, Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, Whitney Houston syndrome
Here’s the thing: everybody’s got pluses and minuses. Even the most toxic boyfriend has some redeeming qualities. Maybe he gives you great compliments, or makes you feel great in the sack.
But then there are deal-breakers. You need to know what yours are and stick to them. When they get violated, the deal is broken. Betrayal sounds like one of those.Categories: Dating for Women