Ancient Wisdom + Modern Science = Awesome Advice on Love & Life for Smart People Like You
Aw man, I can feel a rant coming on. Here’s one comment/letter from a reader:
Speaking of long distance! We met on FB after many years apart, and live in different states. What about if there is loving romantic communication, and you respond in kind, in addition to calls… However, when it [...]
Letter:
Dear Alex,
It seems people write in to you often with their various romantic conundrums, so I thought I’d give it a go.
In short: a guy I dated back about 20 years ago in college got back in touch with me. He has been married since his early 20s – met the woman almost [...]
In yesterday’s post, we talked about Beth’s letter. She was on the brink of separation, and wanted to know how to avoid emasculating behaviors around her husband. We talked about mothering, jealousy, criticism, competition and correcting.
Today, we’re going to talk about how to reverse the process and start doing things that make him want to [...]
Got this interesting letter recently:
Dr. Alex,
I am in the midst of a separation initiated by my husband. I don’t want a divorce. He says the main reason we cannot live together is because of what he calls my “emasculating behaviors”. He claims I may not even be aware of when I am doing “it”, but [...]
I was fortunate enough to come across this article by Arjuna Ardagh on the goddess on Huffington Post as I was checking up on my own article there. This is now required reading for all my boys and girls.
Men: this is the highest expression of the unarticulated longing inside your heart for the divine feminine. [...]
There have been a number a number of excellent books on happiness published in the past few years, and I have been consuming them avidly. Not only do I use their principles to help my students and hypnotherapy clients lead happier lives, but I also enjoy applying the principles to my own life. [...]
Here’s a great letter from a reader about a budding romance at work — a very common situation:
I’m a huge fan of the Tao of Dating, (which I’ve read 2x now), and we’ve spoken a couple of times online. I’m writing to you because I’m in a situation that’s mostly great, though a [...]
Here’s a letter from a reader:
“You said we can change people’s behaviors by holding higher images of them.
I am living with someone who considers us broken up and that he is my ex. He has fallen in love with someone who lives in Geneva. I am living with him because at the moment I do [...]
Just now, I was about to hop on my bike to go to my usual 4.15pm yoga class in the neighborhood when I was gripped by this incredible reluctance, almost like a force holding me back. For some unfathomable reason, I just didn’t want to go. But I talked myself into it, saddled up and [...]
On a sunny day here in Santa Monica, I was driving down the street when I noticed a police car on the other side of the road.
Of course, this means that I came to a complete stop at the stop sign, well behind the limit line, let all pedestrians have right of way, and smiled [...]
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