Tag Archives: Excuse

Dating Advice for Women – Trust Issues: Should I Stay or Should I Go?

By , October 30th, 2009 | Dating for Women | 5 Comments

Hi Dr. Alex!  I’ve been forwarded many of your emails from a friend and I enjoy reading them. Now I have my own questions…

Here goes nothing!  So, I’ve been dating this guy for a little over a year now. He works in the same building as I do that’s how we met. He’s 15 years older than me…I thought dating an older guy was better because they’re mature and know what they want.

Anyway, at the beginning of our relationship he was really great! He knew what he wanted and I loved that. He was very caring and just on top of it. Now, I feel like he’s gotten comfortable. He’s a self-centered person. I concern now because I came from a relationship where the guy cheated on me. We were together for 4 years and ended up getting married and now divorced.

I’m scared this will happen to me again…this new guy has been very sneaky from… (more…)

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30Oct

Tao of Dating Experiment: ‘Absence makes the heart wander’

By , March 6th, 2009 | Dating for Women, Tao of Dating Experiment | 0 Comments

The Phoenix has a new entry up.  I’m so proud of her!  She’s really putting the material to use.  It was my goal to present the material in the book in such a way that the readers would actually implement it, so it’s tremendously gratifying when someone does that.  My hope is that these blog posts can be a catalyst for you, my dear reader sitting at her computer screen, to put the material to use as well.

My comments will be in italics henceforth.

Chapter 2: Who You Really Are

I read this chapter by candlelight while soaking in my tub last Thursday evening. It made such an impact that I have taken a week to marinate in the thoughts and the emotions that those thoughts stirred. I was already coping with the realization that it may not be the men in LA that are the problem, but the problem may just lie (more…)

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6Mar

Dating for Men: How to Get MORE Dates by Getting Pickier

By , February 27th, 2009 | Uncategorized | 0 Comments

Today I want to talk about how being discriminating in dating can make you more successful in dating.

Before I start, I want to follow up on the story from the last article about my friend Aaron.

Remember how when he asked out this really attractive young woman, she immediately reeled off the names of the 4 most expensive restaurants in town?

Remember how I told you that it was a sign of trouble?

Well, let me tell you what happened on that date.

Contrary to my advice, my friend Aaron agreed to go on the date.  And also agreed to go to one of the restaurants she named.

He also did not use my little formula for turning around the expensive taste of the young lady on herself by saying something like this: (more…)

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27Feb
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