The Tao of Dating by Dr. Ali Binazir

How do you make good decisions in ambiguous situations? The four Axelrod Criteria will hold you in good stead in many difficult decisions.

May 3rd, 2010 | Tags: Axelrod Criteria, dating, Dating Advice, dating advice for men, dating advice for women, making better decisions, Robert Axelrod, Tao of Dating, The Evolution of Cooperation | Category: Dating for Men, Dating for Men & Women, Dating for Women | Leave a comment

Recently I had the pleasure of reading a very interesting book on the inner workings of the human mind.
It’s by Jonathan Haidt, and it’s called The Happiness Hypothesis: Finding Modern Truth in Ancient Wisdom. If you’re fascinated by the science behind how humans tick and how it relates to ancient wisdom, I highly recommend [...]

February 8th, 2009 | Tags: attract women, attraction, dating, dating tips for men, elevation, experiences, Happiness Hypothesis, hierarchy, Jonathan Haidt, kinship, Maslow, oxytocin, peak experiences, Relationships, science, Spirituality, super-attraction, Thoreau, Walden | Category: Dating for Men, Sexuality | Leave a comment

Hi Dr. Alex,
I was in a long-term relationship not too long ago. Now that I am over it, I would like to continue dating like I was, when I was younger… I have recently started college at a new University, so I don’t know too many women. I addition to that, it seems like the [...]

February 6th, 2009 | Tags: approaches, bars, community, continuity, conversation, dating, friendliness, meeting women, men | Category: Dating for Men | Leave a comment

Hey there.  Recently got an interesting letter about a situation that I’m sure many of you have encountered before:
*****LETTER FROM READER*****
Dr. Alex,
I don’t know if you have addressed this before, as I am new to your program. I just met a girl that has been dating a guy for about a month. I really want [...]

February 4th, 2009 | Tags: attraction, available, boyfriend, chemistry, dating, principles, rules, self-interest, stealing women, Tao, unavailable, wealth-consciousness | Category: Dating for Men | Leave a comment

The last article that I wrote, about how the concept of No-Self or anatta can empower your dating in a big way, received one of the most vigorous responses from the readers.
Here’s one of them:
“I really loved this article.  The way you weave the concept of no-self into the dating pipeline, examining every step of [...]

February 3rd, 2009 | Tags: dating, flow, meditation, metamorphosis, mindset, mindtracks, no-self, Persuasion, Tao, yoga | Category: Dating for Men | Leave a comment

This has got to be one of the most insightful articles on female sexuality I’ve ever read.  It discusses some new scientific findings about female arousal with profound implications — and some very controversial interpretations.
Every man should read this to understand better the inner workings of the female psyche; every woman should read this to [...]

January 31st, 2009 | Tags: arousal, attraction, danger, dating, female sexuality, male archetype, Passion, roller coaster, seduction, what women want | Category: Dating for Men, Dating for Women, Sexuality | Comments (4)

Hello there.  Dr Alex here, your friendly neighborhood provider of insight into the single male’s mind.
I attended a pretty interesting relationship workshop this weekend where people shared their experiences very frankly. About 1/3 of the people were couples, and the rest were singles.
Several of the single women stood up and asked questions, and, the [...]

January 28th, 2009 | Tags: attention, chemistry, compliment, dating, first date, flirting, interest, men, success, women | Category: Dating for Women | Comments (1)

Subject: Approaching a Stranger of Interest
Hallo Dr. Alex,
Such good material. Sorry that I just joined you. If I knew, I could have joind you long ago. But for now Dr, a simple question here:
There is this girl in town I have been looking at for quite some time now (it’s a girl, not a woman, [...]

January 26th, 2009 | Tags: courage, dating, expectations, Relationships | Category: Dating for Men | Leave a comment

So one of the things I’ve always liked about Eastern wisdom in general and the Tao Te Ching in particular is its practicality.
Before, I associated spirituality with some guy in a long robe spewing stuff about crystal power and channeling dead ancestors and whatnot.
But here was this book — the Tao Te Ching — which [...]

January 23rd, 2009 | Tags: Anatman, Anatta, Ancient Greek Philosopher, Buddhist Tradition, Crystal Power, dating, Eastern Wisdom, Greek Philosopher Heraclitus, Hypnotherapy, Inner Peace, life, Mentorship Program, Pali Word, Practicality, Sanskrit Term, Skepticism, Spirituality, success, Tantric, Tao Te Ching, Taoist Traditions, wisdom | Category: Dating for Men | Comments (1)